Blown Away - DivX Version (Normal Quality), DVD (Good Quality), PDA Version

Author: louismorris1953
November 20, 2009

Blown AwayBlown Away (1994)

IMDB rating: 5.70

Plot: There’s a serial bomber loose in Boston, and he has killed Blanket, a member of Boston’s bomb squad and the best friend of explosives expert Jimmy Dove. Dove has just retired from the bomb squad to marry a violinist named Kate, who has an 11-year-old daughter named Elizabeth. Haunted by grisly flashbacks, Dove soon figures out the identity of the bomber — Irish explosives expert Ryan Gaerity, a man who is so radical in his views that even the IRA wants nothing to do with him. Gaerity has escaped from the maximum security Castle Gleigh prison in Ireland, using a bomb made from ingredients that include blood, wool, and a porcelain toilet. Gaerity has fled to Boston, where he saw Dove, who had just disarmed a bomb planted in the Harvard computer lab, painted as a reluctant hero on TV. Gaerity was furious: it’s because of Dove that he’s spent years in prison. Dove was born Liam McGivney, and he used to be a naive Irish patriot. Gaerity recruited him and taught him to build bombs, and Gaerity conceived a terrorist plan that went terribly wrong. Liam helped Gaerity build a bomb, then he realized that Gaerity intended to detonate it on a crowded street. Liam tried to stop Gaerity from detonating the bomb, but bomb device went off, killing a lot of people, including Gaerity’s sister. Liam escaped from Ireland and made his way to America, where he changed his name to Jimmy Dove. Gaerity was arrested, tried, and imprisoned until his escape. Gaerity, who has now taken up residence in an abandoned gambling ship called the Dolphin, has decided to get revenge on Dove, and Gaerity started terrorizing the bomb squad by killing Blanket. Now, Dove is the only one who can stop Gaerity.

Download

Available versions:

DivX Version (Normal Quality), DVD (Good Quality), PDA Version

Directors: Hopkins Stephen

Actors: Bridges Jeff,Jones Tommy Lee,Bridges Lloyd,Whitaker Forest,Finn John,de Oni Christofer,Catlett Loyd,Santiago-Hudson Ruben,Burns Brendan,McLaglen Josh,Action,Thriller,

Download Full Version>>

any advice for a confused guy?
So in a nutshell:

I met this guy randomly a couple of years ago. We hooked up. It was kind of a FWB type thing. Except we got along and sometimes it seemed like we were having a rather imperfect relationship. We were always very comfortable with each other and definitely had a good time together. One problem we had was that we both are both still coming to terms with our sexuality and also had come in from intense relationships that we were either in or still getting over.

My thought was that we learned a lot of ourselves through that last 2 years. We would talk about what exactly we had going on–partner? bf? Just friends. He always said, "it seems like the natural progression should be partners" but for some reason it does not feel right with me. I responded by saying "no thanks, not what I am looking for." But all the while we were very affectionate and loving and downright bf-like.

I can’t speak for him, but I know I did eventually fell for him. I loved him. I still love him. At any rate, we took a few months break, simply talking via email or IM and just stayed out of each others lives. But we flirted all the time. I then asked one time to hook up, just sex and he said no. He said for my sake that I should assume he was never gonna be with another guy. He didn’t want to kiss guys anymore and though he was attracted to me, he was not interested. He wanted to be "good friends" because he cared about me. So I said, "ok" just friends. Thing is we have repeated that convo twice before and we ended up making out and hooking up. But this time he was sure.

Months later, we finally meet up again. We go shopping. I help him pick out stuff and that just seems awkward since it is relationship-y. Anyway, I tell him I have been seeing a guy. He has too. He tells me he loves that guy and is considering being with him in the full sense of the way–telling his parents and friends etc. I am blown away. Though I don’t let on. At one point they are about to break up—am happy about this–though I don’t let on and even encourage him to fight for this guy if he loves him. He agrees and thanks me.

Now, they are together and apparently happy. I hang out with him and lo and behold, he kisses me. He hugs me. I tell him I missed him, he says it too. He says I never reach out to him, only he ever contacts me, which is true. I tell him he only reaches out to me when he needs me. Which is also true. We agree we are both emotionally ******. He asks is we should sleep together. This after have a long conversation about our respective relationships.

I kiss him, but eventually got up to leave. I can’t sleep with him after what I feel is a long time of just flip flopping and not really knowing and defining what we have. He described us as Bert and Ernie, which was telling, at least to me.

I just don’t know what he wants. We speak in euphemisms. I think he uses me in a way. I am a good listener and I always cheer him up. I was a rebound to him. He was that to me in a way as well. He is older than I, about 8 years. He said we should never hook up, then he does this. And then we say such sweet corny stuff and I just don’t feel that it is just a hook up or simply a simple generic thing. It sometimes seems that way, but does not feel like it.

Any advice? Anything really, sick and tired of analyzing this.

–Confused

I would help, but this is way to long!!!!!! I stopped at the second paragraph??!!.. I’m sure you’ll find an answer though, goooooood luck.
Kyle | Nov 18, 2009

If having a relationship or connection with this guy is more unpleasant/emotionally taxing than it is enjoyable; then it might not be worth it, even if you do really care for him. I would recommend sitting down with him and having a heart-to-heart. Ask him all the questions you want to ask and get some things cleared up so that you can both decide for sure what you want to do. Once you make a decision, stick with it. I wish you all the best. I understand how complicated these things can get. :(

(I read all of your post by the way)
E L | Nov 18, 2009

You’re in a really convoluted situation and I think you’re probably the only one who can make the right decision. My advice is simply to be direct and ask him what exactly he’s looking for in his relationship with you.

Personally I wouldn’t want to get involved with someone whose always changing their mind and contradicting themselves. Stability and trust are important in a relationship and they can’t be achieved with someone who frequently 180s.
seejay42090 | Nov 18, 2009

i think you guys really need to talk it out about what you want. if you want to be with him then do the partners thing. its not helping that you guys let your selves hook up. i say you two need to stop playing games and just get together.
baby tory <3 | Nov 18, 2009

maybe we all love different traits in different people, and he gets comfort in the fact that you cheer him up and you get satisfaction from doing so.

With my first ever full on gf of 2 years she broke my heart and it was a while until i trusted any girl, but now there is another and this time she is 10 years my senior(34) she has two kids and is divorced.

we were seeing each other for about 4 months and she had told me she loved me, i was in shock i couldn’t work out if it was a rebound thing or what, but to be honest i did have feelings, as time went on she decided that it couldn’t work between us because of the age difference and other factors .. i was like o right , dropped just like that, then i saw her 9 days ago and she came over too me and said she had missed me and she was having a hard time with the divorce and what not, a few drinks later i was back at her place smashing her all over the shop.

She asked me if i wanted too meet up the following wednesday but i swerved her and said no but i wished i did but i don’t want too be dropped again, so in a way i can relate and time is the healer and you need too be selfish and think of you’re self.
England for the the word cup | Nov 18, 2009

Unfortunately timing, in love, as in most things, is everything. Move on.
Boko's Back | Nov 18, 2009

Tags: , , , , , , , , , , , ,

 

Leave a Reply
 

Categories